Standards

Every where you go there’s always gonna be standards and people will always compare you to someone else. For me it hasn’t been a piece of cake (even tho that sounds a whole lot better right now). During my pregnancy I haven’t skipped a beat. I finished my season of horse judging, still working a job and still keeping my grades out of the gutter so that I pass senior year. Not to mention having to fight the urge to sleep in my classes and when someone decides that they want to release a whole butt load of perfume in the halls, I have to make sure I don’t get nauseous from that.

What most people don’t realize is people who are pregnant literally have a whole other person sucking the life out of them. IM MY BABIES LIFE LINE, And I do get tired more easily than someone who isn’t pregnant. So if you could please stop comparing me to others WHO ARE NOT PREGNANT that would be great!

As a teenager people expect you to have more energy than someone older. If you think about it, what makes age a difference to how pregnancy will affect you. I’ve been labeled with “Lack of initiative ” oh I’m sooo sorry that someone else does it faster than me. Let me please remind you that I’m caring a basketball that sucks the life out of me. Literally! Everyone sees the negative in things but what they don’t see is that, yes even though I’m pregnant and my back hurts and most of the food I eat makes me sick in some sort of way I still manage to do the best to my ability and not complain about anything. But what blows my mind is older woman who have NEVER carried a child come at me side ways. Don’t judge a book by its cover, even tho when I go to the library I do just that. In the real world don’t assume something when you have never encounter it or don’t have knowledge about what you are labeling. So thanks for reading my rant 💛 whether you read my blogs cause your interested or you just want to snoop thanks for the views! 💛

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